Aug. 23, 2024

#Mortgage #Industry Insights: Navigating #Challenges and #Opportunities with Gavin Ekstrom (Part 1)

#Mortgage #Industry Insights: Navigating #Challenges and #Opportunities with Gavin Ekstrom (Part 1)

In this episode of Raising the Flipping Bar, we sit down with Gavin Ekstrom, Denver's number one independent lender, a remarkable content creator, and an all-around industry rock star. Gavin shares his journey from a 19-year-old mortgage loan officer to a seasoned expert with over 30 years in the business. We dive deep into his passion for the mortgage industry, his strategies for avoiding burnout, and the importance of keeping the main thing the main thing.

This episode is packed with insights on real estate investing, market trends, and the power of resilience and focus.

The key takeaways from this episodes are:

1. Passion and Addiction to Work: Gavin describes how his obsession with real estate has kept him focused and driven. 

2. Adaptability and Resilience: Both Gavin and Derek emphasize the importance of staying resilient and adaptable to keep thriving in the industry.

3. Education and Continuous Learning: Gavin stresses the significance of education, whether formal or through life experiences, and the value of continuous self-improvement. 

4. Value of Relationships and Networking: Both speakers highlight the crucial role that relationships and networking play in the industry.

5. Entrepreneurial Spirit and Vision: Gavin emphasizes the importance of being a visionary, staying focused on the main goal, and not being afraid to take risks and make mistakes as part of the growth process.

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Welcome to raising the flipping bar, the go to podcast for aspiring and seasoned real estate investors.

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I'm your host, Derek Marlin, and I'm the CEO of Elevation.

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We're a real estate investment company based right here in Denver, Colorado.

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We'll dive into smart investment strategies, market insights, and essential tips for scaling your real estate ventures.

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Whether you're making your first investment or your hundredth investment, this podcast is your blueprint for success in the ever evolving world of real estate investing.

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Get ready to elevate your real estate game and begin your journey with me.

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Everybody welcome back to another episode of raising the flipping bar.

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I'm your host, Derek Marlin, and I'm really excited.

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We have a fantastic guest here.

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We've got the number one, independent lender, number one in Denver, a great content creator and overall rockstar.

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Gavin, welcome to the podcast.

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Hey, thanks for letting me be here and super excited to spend some time with you today.

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I know we've crossed paths quite a bit and we're always running in a million different, different directions, but now we're here.

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Yeah.

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Love it.

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for coming.

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I always kind of start off our podcast.

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I like to do it a little bit differently and I forgot why I heard this, but it kind of, I think, help give people a little bit of insight into who you are as a person.

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So give me something either fun fact, crazy facts, something super different where even if people would know you're there, like I had no idea with that about Gavin.

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So give me some sort of crazy fun fact about you.

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after 30 years in the industry, I think a fun fact about me when you say that, and the first thing that comes to mind is, I'm, you know, everyone's passionate about what they do.

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I just think I live and breathe and do this all the time.

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I, I truthfully am an addict, and here's what I mean by that.

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If I wasn't doing this, I would probably be under a viaduct somewhere doing drugs.

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Because this is what, when I go to bed, this is what I'm thinking about.

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When I wake up, this is what I'm thinking about.

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And in between playing with my kids, it's still what I'm thinking about.

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If I'm playing Barbie with my daughter, I'm thinking, well, Man, look at the red carpet that Barbie has my clients need red carpet and then call this a text.

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I'll text her right after we're done playing, get red carpet for the events we're doing.

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So I just, that's just the way my mind thinks, you know what I mean?

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And I think too, Derek, and I was thinking about this this morning, as I was driving here, as you came into my life for a reason, I think that happens to everybody.

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Right.

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And it's just up to us to figure out.

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Why?

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You know what I mean?

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I'm not very educated.

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I barely finished high school.

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I got into the mortgage industry at the ripe age of 19.

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And, I've been doing it ever since.

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And I went from, I really think I went from being a mortgage loan officer to being a real people person.

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And that's all we're we're in the people business.

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Right.

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And so that's the way I look at it is we're, we're just people.

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Let's just go figure some stuff out.

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You know what I mean?

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No, great answer.

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That's perfect.

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And I'm glad that you kind of tied your fun fact to being in the industry because something that I really want to dive into first is, yeah, you've been in the mortgage business for over 30 years, which is amazing in and of itself.

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I think so many people either a get burnout or they get shiny object, syndrome, and it's a huge problem.

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Maybe tell me a little bit about like, what's, you talked about being the addict, which I think was like a crazy and hilarious parallel.

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What's kept you sucked into this niche and this industry.

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Cause you are an expert.

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And I think when sometimes people become an expert, they're like, well, I'm good at this.

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So I'm going to be full time investor, full time broker.

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Like you have all these spheres that you're in, like what's kept you laser focused.

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My wife, I'll tell you.

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So if you go back to my history, I'll remember I worked for a small broker called Allen mortgage back in Utah.

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That's where I'm from originally.

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And I'll never forget, you know, there's some tough times in the mortgage industry and real estate.

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And right now is a really tough time too.

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Right.

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And I'll never forget.

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I'm boxing up my shit.

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And, uh, my buddy, Scott Phippen comes in and we're still friends today.

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And he, he comes by and he's like, what are you doing?

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I said, I'm done.

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I can't do this.

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This is just way too much.

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I probably had to tell somebody their loan was denied.

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Right.

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And so I'm like, this is just way too much.

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It's not worth the paycheck.

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I'm done.

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And so I'm, I'm boxing up.

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And he said one thing to me, he says, will you do me a favor?

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And I said, yeah, he says, will you call all your realtors and will you have them work with me?

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And I thought about it and I'm like, wait a minute.

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All my realtors.

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I mean, I have, I have a business here.

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I just need to focus on it.

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That one thing led me to unpack my shit.

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And get to work.

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Right.

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And then when we talk about burnout, right?

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So in 2008, there was a, there was a burnout, right?

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The market was changing.

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I moved here in 2004.

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So in 2008, the market starts changing more.

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It's different.

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Right.

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And I have all this years of experience.

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And so how I dealt with burnout then is I had this brilliant idea.

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I was going to open a cupcake shop.

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It was going to be called cutie cakes and I was going to have girls rollerblading.

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I know you can't do this today.

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Remember this is 2008 and yes, I thought, well, what a great idea.

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They can rollerblade downtown with cupcakes and they can be a, maybe a little cute or whatever in selling cupcakes.

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I brought the idea to my wife.

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I said, listen, you can bake the cakes.

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I'll hire the talent.

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I'll get them downtown.

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And she goes, do you think I'm a baker?

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Do you think I know how to do this?

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Shit like get to work.

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And then I came back probably two weeks later.

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And I said, I got this great idea.

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I got this great idea.

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How about a t shirt company, a cool t shirt company.

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And she literally sat me down and she's like, listen, what you do.

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Is sell mortgages, right?

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And so go just sell mortgages.

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People like you, you have an it factor, go play the it factor.

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And so when I got to about 2015, I went from the person of, Hey, I'm just going to, I'm going to be just the loan officer to, Hey, let's shift and start chasing people, you know what I mean?

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And so that keeps me from burning out.

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I haven't worked in 10 years.

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And to be honest, I haven't taken a loan application in over 10 years.

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And I just won the.

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Let's see, CLMA, which is Colorado Lenders Mortgage Association, top mortgage originator for Denver, for Colorado.

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So great, but I'm like, I hope they don't know that I haven't taken a loan application, but what I've done is I've developed a business and a team.

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And the team allows me to go do what I'm really good at.

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And here's what I'm good at.

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I'm good at talking to people.

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I'm good at speaking publicly.

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And that's all I want to do.

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And anything else the team can handle.

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Not talking to people.

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I talked to real estate agents.

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I still talk to clients, but I don't sit down with them one on one and hear about their, their bank statement problems or their, you know what I mean?

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My team is really good at that.

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And so I've leveraged that to where I am today.

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And so how I don't get burned out is I'm doing exactly what I want to do.

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So I had my team do this the other day is, is, we're going into, we're going to be going into 25 real soon.

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I want to know what they like about their job and what they don't like and everything that they don't like.

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It just creates another position for either tech or a person.

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And so we start taking that off their plate now, because if I'm doing everything that I like to do, why shouldn't they?

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Because guess what?

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Just because I don't get burned out doesn't mean they won't.

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And I'm still very, I'm still, I consider myself an entrepreneur.

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I come to Alyssa with this idea, this idea, this idea.

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I got to keep the main thing, the main thing and just stay focused there.

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So I catch myself a lot, probably not as often as they would like, but I still catch myself a lot.

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I'm a visionary.

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here's the other thing I want to talk about is because you have this longevity, I think the other tough thing is that, especially in the investment game, in the agent game, people get some success, but maybe they don't get the success they want.

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And then they immediately change.

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So you've seen some major shifts.

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So whether it's.

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Actually being through the tech bubble of the early two thousands, the great recession slash depression, and then the crazy shit we just went through in 2022 and kind of what we're doing.

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Tell me a little bit about how your business has evolved through those.

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Because I think again, with you being laser focused, you getting those Malcolm Gladwell, 10, 000 hours, I think people need to key in on that no matter what part of the spectrum that they're listing on.

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Yeah.

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So shame on me because I could have just had completely different team handling that business.

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But I'm focused on my real estate agent relationships and building their business.

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Not, not, I can build, if I build their business, it builds mine.

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That's the way I look at it.

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Right.

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So, and I have no secrets.

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If another lender asked me, Hey, can I get this from you?

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I'll give it to you.

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Here's the difference is it's not, it's maybe unique to me.

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But it's not unique to anyone else.

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Other people can do it and they're not going to sell it the same way I do.

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They're not going to say it the same way I do.

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So just give it away.

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I come from a place of abundance.

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Like it, you know, and there's no secrets in this industry because someone else is doing what you're already doing.

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And here's my trick.

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I literally take a little of you, a little of you, a little of you, and I make this.

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And that's how I got to this.

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Like I'm the youngest of six.

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Growing up.

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I just lost my dad.

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Let's see, August 8th.

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I just lost my father.

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Right.

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And, so when I was talking to my brother, he said, dad was so proud of you.

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And I said, I wouldn't have been where I was at today if I didn't have all of you to look up to.

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And what I did is as I, as they were growing older, I said, okay, I like this about my brother.

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I like this about my sister.

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I like this about my brother.

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And that formed me to a point.

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And then I started chasing the Tony Robbins, the Ed Milets, the, you know what I mean?

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The Wayne Dyers, all of these bigger people, the Jim Rohns, because I'm like, well, why not me?

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You know what I mean?

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And so it's just evolving.

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And so I'm still running this race, but I keep the main thing, the main thing, because.

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Then I can add value to my realtors in a different way.

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It's not about the mortgage.

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It's about the relationship for me.

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I learned when you go back, I learned also probably about probably about 2015, quit trading time for money.

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And if I can teach anyone that today, it's like quit trading time for money and quickly take action.

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Right.

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Just go for it.

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You may, you may fail.

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The reason that I'm successful, whatever you use as a definition of success, the reason I'm successful in my definition of success is, the number of people that you've impacted in your life.

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And it starts at home.

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Yeah, that's awesome.

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what if you weren't here, you're not in the room, what do your kids say about you?

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Right.

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One of the best things that happened to me the other day, I was having dinner with my two boys and we were just chatting it up and this complete stranger stops by and he says, I got to tell you something.

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You're a phenomenal father.

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He says, I've been watching you from afar.

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You're engaging in your kids.

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They get on their phones.

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You, you give them a little grief, but the way that they look at you and the way that they are leaning in when you're talking and the way they're smiling with what you're saying, they love you.

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And I'm like, thank you.

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Right.

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For a complete stranger to say that.

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And I look at my boys and they're like, They, you know, they blush, they're 16 and 14.

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They can't, they don't, you know, and we, listen, I tell him, I love him every time, even in front of their buddies.

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And if they don't say they love me back in front of their buddies, I'm like, really, you're embarrassed to love your father.

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Yeah, we have a good relationship, but, but, but it starts at home.

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Right.

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And then if, if home is good, everything else is easy.

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Everything else is easy.

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Yeah.

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And give the audience, because to me, and I'm going to set the stage a little bit for part of the, what we talked about on this show is entrepreneurship, personal development.

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You mentioned some great people in the personal development space.

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Give our audience a little bit of a rundown of your kiddos age, because I'm going to lead you down a path and I'm going to get our audience to where I want them to really key in on this, but give us the range because you've got a range of awesome kiddos.

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I am the youngest of six and if I would have told my wife when I married her, that I would like to have a big family.

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I probably, she probably would not have married me.

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So she brought one to the wedding or to the marriage and I brought one to the marriage.

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Ethan was three at the time.

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Cicely was one.

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That's a whole nother Jerry Springer story.

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But now Ethan is 2025.

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Cicely is now 21 and Beckett is 16.

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London is 14.

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Sebastian is 12.

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Mila is five.

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And I'll tell you what, if Mila was the first child, we wouldn't have had any more.

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Yeah, that's true.

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I think God does that for certain reasons.

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Like you need, I don't want to say easy, but you need graceful kids when it's kids number 3, whatever else, right?

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It doesn't work.

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And many of you know, she's battling leukemia.

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She's going to be fine.

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But at five years old, she's resilient.

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She's tough.

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And God picked the right person to go on this cancer journey because she's stronger than any of them.

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No, that's really well said.

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And I think the beautiful thing about that is, so I only have three and that makes me just admire what you're doing because I think that's a tough thing is that some people in the last 18 months are like, well, the, the, you know, the industry is hard or rates suck or, you know, my clients aren't buying house hacks anymore or whatever else.

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like we could all always have these excuses and what we all like to be doing better, of course.

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But you're right.

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If you get your shit together at home and if you're able to help run a family.

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I'm sure your wife is, you know, doing amazing things as well of keeping the family going, but like to run a family of six, to run a business, like that's a lot.

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You're a person that could have excuses, but you've been able to kind of create this life.

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And this, I don't like to hear the word work life balance to me.

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It's harmony.

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Like at what point are things in harmony, but you've been able to do a great job.

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And I want people to hear that.

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I don't believe in the work life balance.

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Yeah.

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Because I'm out of balance.

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Balance people very rarely change the world.

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You think, you think Elon Musk is, is, Well, I can't it's five o'clock.

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I got to shut it down.

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Right.

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And he's got 40 kids or however many kids he's got.

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But so, so here's the thing is so Ethan, Ethan was a COVID lender.

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What I mean by that is he graduated high school.

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he didn't want to go to college.

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And so I said, well, you can't live here.

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so we sent him to Spain to learn language immersion.

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He came back fluent within like a year and then COVID hit.

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And so I vowed to never let one of my kids get in the mortgage side of things.

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Right.

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And so he's like, well, let me just give it a shot.

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And he crushed it for two years.

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But then he didn't want to do the hard work.

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That you and I are accustomed to.

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And so I said, well, you got two options.

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You can go to school or you can go to school now.

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Cicely was already in school.

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Right.

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And so he's like, go to school.

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I said, yeah, go to school because I never went to school.

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It's probably, I don't have any regrets.

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If I could go to, if I, I, one day I'll, I'll, I'll go to school and maybe it was Sebastian or Mila, but I never went, but I believe in education.

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I got my education through the people that I met mentioned before in the entrepreneurial space to give me the, the leg up.

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So I wasn't the most uneducated individual in the room.

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I wanted to be able to have a conversation with anyone, no matter what the conversation was about.

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So I study, I study, I still study today.

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I read a lot just to be sharp.

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So now they're, they're off to school.

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My son Beckett, uh, likes basketball, doesn't love it.

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The other two, Spassion's an addict like his dad and hockey 24 seven and same with London with soccer.

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So Beckett likes basketball.

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He doesn't love it.

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So I'm like, Beckett, get a side hustle.

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Do something.

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I said, what do you, what are you passionate about?

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And he's like, well, I like shoes.

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You have a lot of shoes.

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I like shoes.

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I said, good resell them.

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So I gave him a starter kit.

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I gave him a bunch of my old shoes to date.

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He's been doing this for about 18, 19 months to date.

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He's made over 40, 000 reselling shoes.

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He has a little flip shoe flipping business.

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So the flipping game, whether in, whether you're in shoes, whether you're reselling stuff on, on, Facebook marketplace.

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I heard another comment the other day, lead flipping, there's a thing called lead flipping, where I'm going to cultivate the lead.

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I'm going to get it done to this point.

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And I'm going to hand it over to a agent or a lender for a higher commission.

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And they're going to have to do less work, but they're almost guaranteed a paycheck lead flipping.

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It's crazy.

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No.

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And I love that.

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And I love how we're kind of bounced around on this one.

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But to me, education is really important as well.

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And we're personally at an interesting inflection point, I think in our society and our country, and to give you some quick backstory on me.

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So I'm, I was classically educated in that I come from a wall street family of people that are like, you're going to go to college, whether you'd like it or not, you better work in finance.

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And I just said, you know what?

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Screw it.

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I want to do my own thing.

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So I was in college.

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One, Completely across the country.

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And my two very, very specific criteria were, can I get a business degree and can I ski?

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And so I ended up at Montana state university in Bozeman, which everybody's like, I was living in Texas at the time for high school and people are going to these elite colleges.

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And I was like, I don't give a shit.

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I just want to go someplace.

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where I can have a fun experience.

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I can develop personal skills.

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I've always had a knack for sales, no matter what it was.

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And I knew I wanted to do some sort of business and then things completely changed and I went into professional sports, but I thought, Oh, I have to have an MBA.

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So I got an MBA.

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I paid for it myself.

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It took me 10 years to pay it off.

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Side story of the reason I went took so long is because I had 2 percent money.

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So to me, it was actually free.

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I'm like, let's just stretch this thing out as long as possible.

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But now fast forward to where my kiddos are.

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We're about to send our first off to college.

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And it's interesting because he's a super creative kid.

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It's really cool.

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He wants to be a therapist.

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It's interesting.

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You bring up the point of like, yeah, do they want to follow in your footsteps?

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He took a real estate course in high school and entrepreneurship course.

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All I needed to do was just pass the damn test.

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And we're like, just do it as a side hustle.

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And he's like, I don't want to do it.

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So I'm like, okay, it is what it is.

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But I think school is so interesting now where we've got new, probably in your sphere, I want to hear about this.

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I feel like sometimes it's almost a badge of honor for the parents to say, I'm sending my kid to Notre Dame or I'm sending my kid to Stanford or whatever.

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And I hate to break the news to them, but.

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The kid at Stanford and the kid at Notre Dame or the kid at Northwestern, they all have MBAs.

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So like, and I even have read stuff recently where people are having to unlearn their MBA.

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So it's like, there's just so many different paths.

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And I love that your kids are doing different paths because to me, it's just, it's so important.

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And you've got to value that ROI compared to your ROI.

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Of getting six year head start in the mortgage industry on somebody who comes out and has a finance degree and doesn't know shit about mortgages, you already LA that person.

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Right.

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So, I don't know, I'm just curious to hear your thoughts on both sides.

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It's tough.

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I want them to be entrepreneur, but I also want them to have the experience because the relationships that they can make, that the friendships that they're going to build and the situations that they're going to be put in to making sure that they're going to do the right thing when mom and dad aren't even watching.

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Right.

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And so that's, that's, That puts them in those positions quite frequently.

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I've got one at high point university, which is a great school out of, North Carolina.

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And I've got another one in Tennessee at Belmont university, and I don't care where the others go.

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I just want them to go and I want them to go and to learn, but I also want them to go for the experience and I'm not expecting them to come out with 4.

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0.

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If they do great, right.

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But I want them to just go and be in the moment.

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Because a lot of those, those life lessons will carry.

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Now, do I think they're going to be a doctor or lawyer or attorney if they choose to?

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Great.

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But if they come out and they say, Hey, I'm going to be a therapist.

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I'll take it.

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But here's what I tell your son.

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You want to know where most therapy is done?

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Mortgage and real estate.

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Well said.

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I joked with him, I said, we might be the first company to have an in house therapist that can help our people because we're dealing with some shit.

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And people are dealing with life and we've got hoarders and we've got seven decision makers trying to sell a house or you've got loan rejections.

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You're right.

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That's it.

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We maybe just figured this out.

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In house therapy.

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Done.

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Here's the other thing that you have to, so that's the easy part, the denials, the, the delays, but it's the home life, the divorce, they're not present.

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They're chasing something else.

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They shouldn't be.

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You know what I mean?

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And the addiction, right?

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It's like, yeah, I do.

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Have an addiction problem.

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I've never been labeled as an addict, but I know what I'm capable of doing if left alone.

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And so my wife knows that.

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And, and I talk about it.

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Why do I talk about it?

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Because it's part of therapy to discuss your weaknesses, right?

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And it, and I think too, it's a level of vulnerability.

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Well, look at him.

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He's in a suit.

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He must have his shit together.

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No, I don't.

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Right.

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Yeah.

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I've made a lot of bad mistakes and guess what?

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I'm going to make a lot more, but my better days are ahead of me.

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They're not behind me.

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And I believe in that.

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I don't have a, I don't, I tease.

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I say, I don't have a rear view mirror in my car.

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So I take it out because I have a windshield because the windshield is my vision and that's bigger than the rear view mirror.

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So my, my, my future is bigger than my past.

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I have a great past.

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Yeah, but I never talk.

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Okay.

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Let's get back to the episode.

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it's been really fun because we've really set the stage for what you've done personally, what you've done professionally.

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I love the personal development.

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We'll kind of break it down.

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Bookend that here at the end of this segment, but I want to talk a little bit more nitty gritty about the mortgage business, about the parallels that we've got in real estate investing in with our real estate agent partners.

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I did see an interesting article and I want to get your take on this.

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I want to talk a little bit about the market because you've got such great experience and like fine tune acumen with that.

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There was an article on CNBC that talked about where england, I should say has their rates.

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Everybody's always going to talk about, you know, where rate's going to go or whatever else, but I thought it was interesting where they are lending at lower than what their essentially fed funds rate is.

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Do you think that that would like break the market here?

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Or like, where do you think we're at from a rate perspective and things just being on the way to normal?

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I want to get your take on kind of where you feel like we are right now.

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And then we're going to talk about some flipping stuff.

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if you look at two things, if you go back to the late eighties, mid to late eighties, right.

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Interest rates were double digits and anybody who bought in that era.

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And it's still alive today.

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Most cases, they talk about, well, if you had an interest rate in single digits, you're, you're fine, right?

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It's still cheap money, not inexpensive.

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It's cheap.

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Right.

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But then we got spoiled.

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We got spoiled by these two and three.

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Now we have a problem.

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Here's the problem.

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80 percent of Americans have a rate below four and a half percent.

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They're not going to move unless they can move and afford something similar or better.

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And in most cases, better than what they have today.

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So now you're seeing people now this whole remote thing where we can work wherever we want.

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You're seeing people move.

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to other areas of the United States that's less expensive.

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Our main office is in Cleveland, Ohio.

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Cleveland, Ohio is very inexpensive to live, or it was.

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What I mean by that, in 2020, you could buy a house in Cleveland, Ohio for about 150, 000.

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Now that same house in Cleveland, Ohio is almost 350, 000.

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So, it's happening.

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We're seeing that, increase in even Cleveland.

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So how do we balance it out?

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If you look at, like England, like you said, if you also look at Canada, right, the lending rules are a little bit different.

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And it's almost like there's just a flat rate.

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And then the difference between you and the bank is the value that you bring.

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And I think to, to kind of just move to the NAR settlement, the biggest thing that agents deal with is what value do you bring as a buyer's agent?

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And I firmly believe buyer's agents have a phenomenal opportunity to make more money.

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I'm excited for them if they know what their value is and how to articulate it.

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But I believe that, that interest rates right now, I mean, you're, you're hovering, we got a veteran in it at five and three quarters yesterday.

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So that's a great rate.

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I think that for us to have the movement that we need and for our kids to be able to buy, we got to see something in the fours consistently for a longer period of time.

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Two and three is really low.

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The other move that we have to see, and I hate to say this, we got to go to a 40 and 50 year mortgage.

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I was just about to ask Yeah.

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That was another article I saw.

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Yeah.

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Tell me your take on that.

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I think there's pros and cons, but I want to hear your thoughts.

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Yeah, it's so a 40 people talk about a 40 year mortgage.

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Now, the problem with the 40 year mortgage is the rates actually higher.

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So you, okay, you add 10 years, but then you add the increased interest rate.

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It doesn't work.

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The math does not work.

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So how do we get to a 40 year that is bought and sold on wall street, right?

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Because that's where the money's coming from.

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So how do we get the appetite for wall street to take a 40 and now a 50 year mortgage?

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I don't know about you.

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I bought my first house at 19.

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It was 63, 000.

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I was literally sitting across from the table there, and a client of mine was buying a house from an estate sale.

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And I simply asked the right question, do you have anything else that's on the market?

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And they said, lo and behold, we have a condo that is 800 square feet.

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It's downtown Salt Lake, and it's a one bedroom.

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So it's really hard to move.

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19 single, no pets.

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I'm like, well, what do you think you're asking for?

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And they said 70, 000 is what we're asking.

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And I said, can I see it?

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I mean, roaches, disgusting, like you name it.

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Right.

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I call him and I'm like, Hey, I'd like to buy it.

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I'll buy it for 63, 000 sold.

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Now I don't have the 3 percent down.

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Cause I'm 19.

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I just got in the mortgage industry and I'm 10 99.

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So no one's going to lend to me.

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So I call him back.

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I'm like, Hey, if I could come up with 3 percent down, will you finance me for five years?

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Seller finance.

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Seller finance.

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Yeah.

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Love it.

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done.

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Mom, can I borrow 3, 000?

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I have whatever 1, 500, right?

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So my mom's like, yes, go for it.

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I'm telling her what I'm buying for the next, three months.

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I fix up 800 square feet.

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It's beautiful.

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I get rid of the roaches.

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I move them downstairs, to the apartment down below.

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And yeah, that's someone else's problem.

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But, so literally, I sold that property.

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I bought it in 93.

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I sold it in 96 for 265, 000.

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To my sister because I love her.

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Yeah.

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I'm not kidding.

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About a year ago, she calls me and she says, your condo, your old condos on the market.

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Do you want to buy it back?

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And I said, why would I do that?

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I've got, it's one bedroom.

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It's 800 square feet.

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I said, but how much is it?

00:26:15.146 --> 00:26:15.696
What do you think?

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I bought it in 93.

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She sold it.

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So she sold it.

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I sold it to her.

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And then she sold it.

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She probably sold it in about 2000.

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And now it's been probably resold or what have you, but in 23 downtown salt lake, five story building, little high rise overlooks the Mormon temple.

00:26:35.672 --> 00:26:36.461
Great space.

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What do you think it's sold for?

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800 square feet.

00:26:38.682 --> 00:26:39.342
350?

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750,000 seven?

00:26:42.140 --> 00:26:42.529
What?

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I would not have pegged that.

00:26:44.299 --> 00:26:46.599
I mean, I know Salt Lake's got some great appreciation too.

00:26:46.740 --> 00:26:47.359
Holy shit.

00:26:47.359 --> 00:26:48.990
real estates meant to be kept.

00:26:49.619 --> 00:26:50.519
Now I get it.

00:26:50.519 --> 00:26:58.660
The flipping part of it makes sense to only accumulate more money to then buy real estate, to buy it and hold in my belief.

00:26:58.660 --> 00:26:58.990
Right.

00:26:59.170 --> 00:27:01.210
I wish I never would have sold it, but.

00:27:01.490 --> 00:27:07.819
table that the reason that I sold it though, was cause I bought another property, made money, bought another property, made money.

00:27:07.930 --> 00:27:12.309
And the money from that condo today, I can track to the house I live in today.

00:27:13.329 --> 00:27:15.000
That's the power of buying real estate.

00:27:15.000 --> 00:27:15.660
I totally agree.

00:27:15.950 --> 00:27:16.680
Well, the cool thing about that.

00:27:16.680 --> 00:27:17.390
I'm glad you brought that up.

00:27:17.390 --> 00:27:21.160
It's funny because my father in law lives in Montana, great real estate investor.

00:27:21.160 --> 00:27:23.500
He's owned a handful of smaller apartment buildings.

00:27:23.509 --> 00:27:26.660
He's owned retail downtown and, but his baby is self storage.

00:27:27.009 --> 00:27:29.619
And I think at first he was pumped that I was getting into real estate.

00:27:29.619 --> 00:27:32.869
Cause I was in very blessed to be in two really great corporate jobs.

00:27:33.410 --> 00:27:36.079
Wanted to get into real estate and saw what he was doing.

00:27:36.809 --> 00:27:40.670
But after a while, he's like, well, this flipping thing, why do you keep flipping?

00:27:40.950 --> 00:27:41.210
But.

00:27:41.710 --> 00:27:42.789
I'm in a weird spot to me.

00:27:42.809 --> 00:27:43.599
I'm also addicted.

00:27:43.599 --> 00:27:51.220
Like I actually love flipping, but as a business and not to say that I could just own a tire company or whatever in business as a business, I wouldn't want to do that.

00:27:51.279 --> 00:27:56.250
I love flipping, but it's all about fueling our ability to acquire long term assets.

00:27:56.259 --> 00:28:01.529
So whether it's the multifamily we owned out of state, we sold that we've traded that we're sitting in our co work space.

00:28:01.529 --> 00:28:02.509
We now own this building.

00:28:02.509 --> 00:28:02.789
You're right.

00:28:02.789 --> 00:28:08.920
It's all about You know, building up that residual income, um, and those assets and that appreciation.

00:28:08.920 --> 00:28:10.450
So tell me a little bit about you.

00:28:10.450 --> 00:28:11.750
You have done a couple of flips.

00:28:11.750 --> 00:28:15.029
I want to hear about some of your flips too, because our audience like would love to hear that.

00:28:15.029 --> 00:28:16.410
Give us, give us some of those contexts.

00:28:16.950 --> 00:28:18.529
I did my first flip.

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I think it was, it had to have been, 2000.

00:28:20.970 --> 00:28:24.109
Listen in the worst neighborhood of Salt Lake City, Utah, if you can believe it or not.

00:28:24.440 --> 00:28:27.869
It was 50, 000 and there was two problems.

00:28:28.200 --> 00:28:32.170
One, it was in a gang infested area in Salt Lake City.

00:28:32.509 --> 00:28:32.960
Yeah.

00:28:33.230 --> 00:28:33.829
And.

00:28:34.279 --> 00:28:38.220
The lady who lived in this house, had a lot of cats with no litter boxes.

00:28:38.470 --> 00:28:38.710
Right?

00:28:38.859 --> 00:28:41.279
So, so it was like, okay, what do you do?

00:28:41.279 --> 00:28:41.710
Right.

00:28:41.869 --> 00:28:43.650
So I'm like, great, I'll buy it.

00:28:44.130 --> 00:28:44.980
So I bought it.

00:28:45.009 --> 00:28:45.700
I'm not kidding.

00:28:45.700 --> 00:28:49.130
There was a day where I was doing some of the work myself just to feel manly.

00:28:49.549 --> 00:28:52.079
The gang lined up on the street right in front of me.

00:28:52.109 --> 00:28:54.160
And all they did is they just sat there like this.

00:28:54.410 --> 00:28:55.039
Watching me.

00:28:55.220 --> 00:29:01.390
And then finally I walked over and I introduced myself to him and they didn't say a word and I said, here's what I'm going to do.

00:29:01.430 --> 00:29:08.440
I'm going to fix up this property, which is going to beautify the area that if your parents own a home there, I'm going to make them more money.

00:29:09.299 --> 00:29:12.609
And it almost resonated with them right then and there that they thought about it.

00:29:13.039 --> 00:29:17.740
And, what I found out is that their parent didn't own a home, but guess who bought one of the houses?

00:29:18.595 --> 00:29:20.615
One of the gang members, I got them financed.

00:29:20.615 --> 00:29:21.234
No way.

00:29:21.275 --> 00:29:21.934
I went over there.

00:29:22.144 --> 00:29:23.724
That's business development right there.

00:29:23.734 --> 00:29:24.194
Yeah.

00:29:24.335 --> 00:29:24.674
Love it.

00:29:24.765 --> 00:29:29.744
yeah, it's like, I'm either going to get shot, but I'll take the option.

00:29:29.744 --> 00:29:30.424
So yeah.

00:29:30.424 --> 00:29:32.684
So needless to say, we fixed it up for them.

00:29:32.684 --> 00:29:33.194
They bought it.

00:29:33.194 --> 00:29:34.484
And so we were doing property flips.

00:29:34.535 --> 00:29:42.194
We got in trouble by the state of Utah on a couple of property flips, because they didn't feel like that they, we were assigning contracts.

00:29:42.345 --> 00:29:42.664
Okay.

00:29:43.045 --> 00:29:45.765
So clearly in the contract, it was written that.

00:29:45.990 --> 00:29:48.049
We may or may not own the property.

00:29:48.509 --> 00:29:48.829
Right.

00:29:48.859 --> 00:29:50.210
And it was clear as day.

00:29:50.559 --> 00:29:54.309
So what we were doing is we would have the property under contract, right?

00:29:54.789 --> 00:29:56.960
And then we would negotiate with the buyer.

00:29:57.299 --> 00:29:59.799
They want a new carpet, new paint and whatever else they wanted.

00:29:59.869 --> 00:30:00.140
Right.

00:30:00.440 --> 00:30:01.269
So we bought the property.

00:30:01.269 --> 00:30:08.700
Let's say we brought the property back then for 150 and we'd carpet, paint, we just sourced the buyer and we were selling them for 200 to 50.

00:30:10.049 --> 00:30:11.029
The state didn't like it.

00:30:11.759 --> 00:30:12.069
Yeah.

00:30:12.480 --> 00:30:18.049
Because it, because they thought that we were taking advantage of the buyer because the buyer could have went and found that property.

00:30:18.509 --> 00:30:19.490
That's entrepreneurship.

00:30:20.319 --> 00:30:21.480
And so we had a problem.

00:30:21.710 --> 00:30:28.299
Some licenses got taken mine and there was some other stuff involved with it, but yeah, and then I got it back, but it was a big deal.

00:30:28.394 --> 00:30:34.384
This has been such a great episode with Gavin Ekstrom that we're actually going to turn this into two different episodes.

00:30:34.765 --> 00:30:35.384
So stay tuned.

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Tune in, come back here shortly.

00:30:37.964 --> 00:30:43.305
We want to get you back with part two, but we're going to just pause right now with part one, cut this into two episodes.

00:30:43.565 --> 00:30:46.115
I really think you're going to get tons of information when you come back.

00:30:46.115 --> 00:30:48.674
We're actually going to learn about Gavin losing his license.

00:30:48.974 --> 00:30:50.454
So that's definitely a cliffhanger.

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You're not going to want to miss that one.

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So come back, see us soon.

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